Back on track...

Ok so me and the hubby are back on track. There was some misunderstandings that weren't either of our faults and we just had to work through and make some decisions...just goes to show you have to make sure everyone understands the boundries. K has kinda dropped out of the pic alittle..we will always still be friends but she's the type who needs someone in her life and can't juggle both. I am so glad I have a true soulmate who understands my needs as do his! We have since met another single woman and are talking to several couples online...so we will see how that all goes. I will posting! ;)

4 life???...or death do us part??

Ok so my husband tells me he no longer wants to swing.. I don't care either way I just want our marriage to be solid! Swinging can be complicated..and that's not counting jeolousy. We are not jeolous people but sometimes others can over step there bounds and make you want to protect your family. My husband and my children are most important in my life and I will protect them. To be honest I like the lifestyle..its made me a different person and I think its done the same for my husband. I just need to be the priority as does he, first and foremost. Is this really the end..I don't know, but I know there are more important things...so we will see...

New Years 2011

My husband and I had decided to go to a party in Toledo, it was somewhere we had never been but always willing to give a place or party a chance to see what things are like.  It was at a hotel...but from the listing there were many couples to meet.  We first attended a meet and greet at the hotel bar.  We arrived totally dressed to the nines...my husband wore a black suit and tie...very handsome!  At that point I couldn't keep my eyes off him.  I wore a strapless dress and 4 inch heels...I clean up nice I must say..lol  There were a few in the bar dressed up...some weren't, so I wasn't sure who was who.  Some went and got dressed before that party started...  He played pool and we spoke to alot of people casually in the bar...people were very nice there...swingers or not.   It was refreshing.  We have went to clubs where no one spoke to us the whole time and if it weren't for us we'd met no one.  We understand we can't sit back and expect everyone to come to us, but specially when your new at a club or party...people should be welcoming.  My husband noticed a couple in the bar and began playing pool with the male half.  She introduced herself to me as K (alot of K's in our life...lol) she then introduced her bf and I introduced us both to her.  I didn't say much more...my husband thought she was good looking.  I was just keeping my mind and options opened.  They both looked very young.   After a drink and about 10 games of pool we decided to enter the party room at about 9pm.  We got a drink and sat in the back...it gave us a view of the whole room and the bar line went right beside our table so we got to see alot of people that way.  Next thing I knew a lady who had complimented me on my shoes in the hotel bar was at our table with her arm around my husband.  I was ok with that.kinda found it refreshing that people were so nice.  Her husband joined us...went thru the formal intros and where we were from etc.  She leaned over and asked if I liked girls...I said yes, and she smiled.  Another couple came over and the first couple introduced us..they were telling us how nice Northhaven was and that we had to come up in the summer.  Northhaven is an optional clothing camping/cottage resort.  I am sure its nice and think the people would probably be really nice...might be a nice little vaca.  The couples left to mingle and get drinks....we did the same.  We watched for anyone we recognized from the swinger website we signed up on..but its hard when alot of the pic are of body parts..lol  I then decided to go outside and smoke...my husband got in line for another drink.  When I came back he had a woman brush her arm around him and onto his crotch...why when I am not around?  I love seeing  women come onto him...and it doesn't happen all the time..
We slow danced to a few songs...I love slow dancing with my husband.  I went to smoke and he came along, though he doesn't smoke.  While standing there we seen the couple we had first talked to in the bar...K & D.  He invited us over to their room.  We sat and talked to them..K and I drank a few shots of Jack.  We then went back to the party...we all danced.  Thats the hardest part for me...finding people to dance with.  My husband doesn't dance much, though he likes to watch.  He says you can tell how a woman will fuck by the way she dances...I must be a damn good dancer..lol  I was touching K, grinding, and rubbing.  I began dancing with D, her bf.  The same insued.  The dancing really heats things up.  Unfortunately my husband doesn't dance, but he does watch and I like that.  We again went back to K & D's room...took a few more shots and planned on going to the after party at the few rooms they reserved for this purpose.  K laid back on the bed to relax and my husband pulled my bullet vibrator out to use on her...she seemed to like it but jumped up ready to go to the after party.  I told my husband it was probably the alcohol..makes me kinda flighty when I drink too much.  At one point K laid on the bed and we all thought she was going to pass out...so I sat her up and one of the guys got her some water.  We went back to the party, hung out danced and walked the hall talking to a few other couples.  We went back to the room, then K & D decided to go back to the party...I was partied out and I could tell my husband was a bit frustrated.  In all reality I should have pulled his cock out and starting sucking on him...but I laid there and fell asleep for a bit.  K & D came back to the room thru the sliding glass door..K went into the bathroom and D was standing by the door. My husband told me if I wanted to fuck him, then go get him.  I didn't hesitate and pushed him into the door and began stroking his cock.  He laid back on the second bed and I began giving him head.  He enjoyed it...I am a pretty good cocksucker..lol  He rolled over and began to fuck me. After sometime, he came...I see my husband rolling around on the bed with K and her sucking his cock, then D stradled my tits...he titty fucked me for a bit and moved on up so I could suck his cock.  He then turned into a 69 position and licked my pussy while I took most of him into my mouth once again.  My husband was amazed how much I was taking in my mouth.  He then mounted me and began to fuck me again. We turned again many times, and by the time I came I was bent backwards off the bed..he came and we fell off the bed laughing. By this time my husband is no longer fucking K...she was just too drunk to fuck properly.  Thats sad to say, but its happened to the best of us...   I immediately felt bad that I was having a good time and he wasn't.  It happens in this lifestyle...there are good fucks and bad fucks out there.  I think its just sexual chemistry..its there or its not, and makes the difference.  My husband came over to the bed I was on...he got the bullet out and laid it on my clit.  The full vibration made me cum in minutes.  After I was again soaking wet..he told me to go over to the other bed and get in bed with K & D.  I hesitated.  But I went the laid on the side of D..he was in the middle.  I began stroking his cock without much reaction, but all of a sudden he rolled over.  She was sucking on his balls and I was still stroking his cock.  He got up and went behind her...K began eating and licking my pussy.  D began fucking K.  I watched my husband stroking his cock on the next bed..and I watched her and watched him fucking her.  She told him how good my pussy tasted and he leaned down, while still fucking her and also eat my pussy.  She was moaning, he was fucking her hard.  He came hard and collapsed. I laid with K for a few minutes stlll touching each other.  I think I could have got her going again, but I wanted to take care of my husbands needs.  I was feeling bad...I know he likes to watch and wants me to have a good time and cum good.  But I also want him to have a good time.  I mounted him, squating above him..slowly lowered my pussy onto his cock...then rode him hard til he came.  I still wished he would have had that with K.  Its exciting to see your spouse fucking someone else.  You get to see sex like you never have with that person because your also in the moment at the time.  Its a turn on...most of the time.  Like I said they all can't be good, but try to make them all good somehow.  I did tell him I had never been with another couple...not when I was single and obviously not as a married woman.   If I would have thought about it when I was single I probably would have...and so as a married woman I was...it was exciting.