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Another g/f???

I am not opposed to bringing in another woman into our relationship and thought J was a good fit.  She is quiet, but pretty and we've both known her for years and shes very sweet.  My husband started talking to her about wanting to spend some time together and really let her know we both wanted this and she was receptive.  Well the other night she came over to spend the night.  We all watched tv, drank a few drinks and talked.  It got late and I crawled into bed and she moved up beside me...we both fell asleep.  The next morning we woke up and my husband had crawled into bed behind me.  He was caressing her hair and I rubbed her back and neck.  She seemed receptive and didn't ask either one of us to stop.  I took things slow...see this g/f as usual had never even kissed a girl.  And the thing with that...for me, is if you aren't bisexual I am not going to force it upon anyone.  My husband on the other hand...is a man and believes every woman is bisexual or should be...hehe.  I agree, but its not always the case.  I reached my hand around to rub around her ribcage and slid my hand up under her breast.  I wasn't going to go up under her bra unless I found her receptive or asked me to.  She never did. My husband then slid his hand around to her other breast and she placed his hand on it.  I wasn't aware of this at the time because we were all under covers.  Thats all the further it went because she got a bad migraine and ended up sick as a dog.  But after my husband made me aware she did that I realized he was not going to get his fantasy...not from her.  See we had this g/f a while back who was straight....but NOT with me and it was one of the most intimate moments I had with any girl.  I know thats what he wants to see again, but it has to all click...and it just wasn't.  Anyways he ended up staying home from work to "take care" of her.  I understand shes a friend and we've known her (and this is going to sound very jeolous of me, but its truely not) but swinging is fucking...its sex and sexual....not emotional.  I have never had to "take care" of any men I fucked....and I know its a difference in the sexes...men are primal and sexual whereas women are emotional.  But I don't want my husband in an emotional relationship with someone we are trying to seduce.  I mean I expect we should all be friends and be respectful and caring towards each other.  But when I see him doing things he would normally reserve for his wife....for another woman.  I just don't get it and don't want it that way.  When I tried to explain it to him, he rationalizes that its just like that with women.  Whats with women?  I am starting to feel unbisexual because I just can't deal with that mentality....the swingers aren't wanting to play....the vanilla women want "relationship" type stuff and the men...well they always just want to fuck...so thats not an issue..lol   I mean i know at the end of the day where my husband is going to be and where his heart is, but I can't help as a woman myself to think its unfair of another woman to think she should have my husband like that...where are all the sluts who just want to fuck and have a good sexual time??  Geesh.    Needless to say after 1/2 the day at our house, J just got up and left, no ty or whatever.  And that was really strange.  Was she regretting it?  Did she think I was mad?  I mean I guess I just put too much thought into all this....again just need a no strings attached slut for my husband. lol    My husband talked to J via txt and she said she just wasn't ready for all this, after a previous break up.. Oh lord...its just sex.  Maybe I am a sexual addict with a mind just alittle like a man, because I am not in a relationship with anyone but my husband....but someone who in this lifestyle is about fucking different people...men and women and if it works out it does, if not...live and learn I guess.   So we will see what happens with this.  Because I know he really wants to fuck her.  I am ok with that, but that needs to be all it is....

RUMOURS Wet and Wild ORGY

Another party down…whew.  It started off alittle rocky…didn’t help that I had to go to Cinci earlier in the day and it was late when I got back..tired cranky and mother nature made an appearance a couple days before…I know TMI, but it played a huge role in this party…unfortunately.
I was mad already because I am such a planner and my husband, well he does things on a whim.  So when I got back from Cinci…we still had yet to move all the stuff to the hotel and set up.  I just barely had enough time to set up..shower and change before 8pm!  I hate being rushed!
The party…well it turned into an all out orgy. People got naked and got busy right at the party…which is exactly what you want to see.  Everyone had fun and it was a great time.  I couldn’t play but enjoyed meeting some new people and seeing alot of familiar faces too.  The most important part is that everyone had fun and had great sex. 
I even ended up back in the playroom…doing some watching for a min,  after packing it all up we went back to the room and I rode my sybian while I gave him a blow job….after we went home to sleep in our bed.  I never want to be one of those host/hostesses that it becomes all business (like some we know!)  I told my husband he could play but he opted not to since I couldn’t.  We both seen people that we were interested in…just couldn’t do it.  I enjoy watching tho…so it still would have been a treat to watch….next time.  Oh yeah next time, its my birthday…so I get what I want on my birthday for me and my husband!!!

The Fort March 9, 2013

Another trip to the Fort to a club...seen a few old friends and met some new.  I have to say some days the swinger world is a strange place!  My husband sat down and began to talk to this attractive woman.  I didn't even catch her name.  I sat down on the other side of her and was just listening to their conversation, but totally wasn't included...but thats ok too.  Her husband came and sat across the way on another couch, so I decided to I should be respectful and say Hi and introduce myself.  We talked for a few.  He finally asked if my husband was going to touch his wife, because he really liked to watch his wife with other men...ok I get that.  But my husband and I really live a respectful life in and out of the swinger lifestyle.  So its all about if its ok with the other person so there are no problems later on down the line.  I mean we both know what we are doing, but its just a respect factor.   Anyways so I had to use the restroom anyways and so I popped up and told him that her husband wanted to see him touch her.  He asked if it was ok...and totally was fine with it and excused myself to the restroom.  When I returned my husband was kissing her breasts and had his hand up her dress rubbing her pussy.  I took my seat next to the husband, watching what I could see of them and also had a great view of the room.  Her husband  was playing with himself and had no interest in me and thats fine I can say it was mutual.  But I couldn't hardly see what they were doing with clothes on...I am more turned on by being up close and personal, by being somewhat involved and just felt out of the loop.  But by far was ok with my husband enjoying himself.  She climbed on top of him and stradled him on his lap.  She asked if he wanted to fuck her and he replied he would have to talk to me first, just again a respect thing.  But I def would have been ok with it.  She kissed him on top of his head and said she would be back...then poof they were gone from the club.  I walked around seeing if I could find them, but guessing they left???  It was the weirdest thing ever.  I am not sure if we as a couple over analyze everything or what, but just kinda rubbed us the wrong way.  Needless to say at the end of the night we were approached by a couple that I didn't neccessarily find attractive, but we considered it for a min...but the female of the couple had licked so much strange pussy over the evening her breath smelled like fried tuna and about made me puke in my mouth!  omg.  People...breath mints plz!!  I ended up with E later that night and it was wonderful.  First time someone made me squirt...multiple, multiple times and all I want to know is the secret so I can do that to women :D  E is a great fuck and fucked upside down and sideways from the time the club closed til 6am...I could have went on but that was late or early whichever way you look at it, and it was time to go.  It was enjoyable but again not so much when my husband didn't get to play.