Whats to say except maybe it was time...there is a lot going on and has been in our household and a lot of unknown rules that didn't apply to me but applied to my husband....which isn't fair to either of us. I can see that over time hes given me a lot of leeway to do things I wanted and me being the rebel I have always been just kinda assumed it was all ok.
Swinging is complicated....it always has been but we've been careful to attempt to not make any mistakes to keep our relationship solid. And that is #1 before anything. So I respect any wishes he asks and vice versa.
That's about all I can say right now.....our future with swinging is undetermined...and that's ok.
Because like I said before #1 is us and our family and our business and last in line to all else that matters is swinging.
