SURPRISE....3some 

My husband worked all day and took down 12 trees in the hot sun.  He had asked me for a massage when he came home from working all day.  I told him of course and will even get the massage table out and make it an official massage.  Hes been working hard lately and deserves it!
I had been texting T off and on this day and when I told her he wanted her to come over to give him a massage....she replied back, let me make sure its ok with K and I will get back with you....hint well taken! :D
She texted me back that he was ok with it and asked when....I told her to give me a bit to set things up and I would text her back.  I ran a bath for my husband, txt'd T back and told her to come over in about 15 mins.  While he was in the bath I quietly let her in and told her to be quiet.  I followed her in and told her he was in the bath...she went and stood at the door until he noticed her there.  He was quite delightful shocked. (yeah me!)
After getting out of the bath, he laid on the massage table with just his towel around him.  T had brought oil and we rubbed his back, neck, arms, hands, legs, feet and butt.  We left no stone unturned.  We talked the whole time.  I left the room to go to the kitchen to smoke.  I could see them from where I was standing.  T took some ice into her mouth a sucked on his nipple.  Then leaned over to sucked on his cock and looked back at me smiling.  I knew he was wondering just where I was in the room and sometimes out of sight alitle gets good results!  I came back in the room where we then took turns sucking his cock and sucking on his nipples.  We sucked his cock together...one of his favs!   His hands were exploring our bodies, he was rubbing my wet pussy and his other hand was occupied with T's tit.  We all agreed he had it going on right at that moment. He agreed!!!
He then took T's tit into his mouth.  How he was sucking on it and being able to watch close up was a huge turn on.  She began sucking on his cock and I moved around the table on her side and slid my hand up between her hot thighs...her pussy was wet and I slid my fingers inside and fingerbanged her pussy. 
We all moved to the couch and she slid between my legs.  I grabbed up all her hair to keep it out of her face. She was licking and sucking...when my husband snuck up behind her with my strap on...and slid that huge cock into her pussy.  He was rolling his hips, first slow and then faster and faster.  Meanwhile her face is being shoved in my pussy.  It was really nice to be able to watch and focus on them. She admitted that a man had never used a strap on with her and she liked it because his actual cock was slapping her clit at the same time and made her cum. 

Did Anyone Else Ever Have One Of These.....

So...where do I start?  I am not trying to come off rude, but I just don't know what to think about people who are over bearing. 

There is this couple and we've been with them a few times...that's cool, but they like to drop in and over stay their welcome....and even fall asleep on our couch without asking.  Again, I am really not trying to be the one to cause drama, or make this a big deal, but I am a very private person and we do have kids...so my home is my sanctuary...

So the other night was my mom's birthday and she came over for pizza and gifts etc.  The wife shows up at our house unexpected and my mom is on her way.  No big deal, but no call or text or anything...  My mom arrives and she leaves.  She then calls a couple hrs later and asks me if shes still there....what?  My mom is in her 70's w/Parkinsons so I try to spend as much time with her as possible....I was like WHATEVER....tried to over look that it was already arranged with them (her husband) to come over to pick our truck up (another long story) but anyways...They showed up as she was leaving...again, no big deal. 

My husband talked with them outside and I took our son in to get a bath.  They talked and talked, etc. I was like ok...whatever again.  Part of this conversation involved her not using birth control and what if she got pregnant...she was like "oh well"...I was like Oh well my ass because it won't be with my husband.  What a fucking disaster that would fucking be ....this is not 20 yr old drama....ain't goin there!  Plus while talking she said, why don't you go take a bath and we'll give you a massage...ok this girl is on her period...and I swear I have a man's brain because the swinging isn't a relationship to me...its just sex.  I don't need all that extra to get in the mood...just sex....

The husband left to go to work and in my husband comes with her in tow....again, its family time.  And now I believe she is overstepping her welcome, but I am nice and don't say anything.  She sits in our kitchen and talks...I go in and play wii w/my son.  Its then his bedtime so I take him upstairs and when my husband comes up, he informs me she has fallen asleep on our couch...I said, well go wake her and tell her shes got to go.  He either doesn't want to be rude...hmmm, so not like him most days...or doesn't want to lose his piece of ass.  By this time I am pissed.  I wanted to have sex with him, but at this point she has ruined all that. .

I know this is not my usual post about our great escapades, but they are getting screwed up by this couple and I think I have had enough....my husband of course doesn't see things like I do and I don't think ....especially her are going to leave us alone anytime soon.....

SOOOOO FINALLY my husband got to fuck T....

We all went out to dinner and my husband the flirt decided to flip the script on T and she was the only one not in on the deal...He sat by her at dinner and I sat by K.  They flirted thru dinner, and assuming there was some rubbing under the table...but I have to say my husband was flirting with everyone that night...the waitress, R...what a good sport for dealing with him, but as she said he made the night interesting for her.  
We left there and hung out at our house for a bit.  My husband laid on the couch and T laid back on him rubbing his leg and eventually pulling out his cock and sucking on it.  I was on the other side of her and it was hard to see...I like to watch!   I just feel like sometimes this couple is so used to playing separately that they don't enjoy watching each other.  The thrill in swinging is to watch my husband and see what is turning him on, whats being done different by him and by the other person and vice versa...I like him watching me.   But to each their own....just move so I can watch :D
I left the room and came back in, T was naked and began undressing me....all while kissing me and sucking on my tits.  I gladly received this attention. I myself have not been with a woman in awhile either...kinda picky and I just have to have motivation...I tend to fall for straight girls...don't know why...don't ask!  But her mouth felt good...wet, warm and begging for more.  I laid back on the couch and she licked my pussy...moving from my pussy to my clit, back and forth.  It didn't take long before I exploded into her mouth and my wet pussy left a puddle.  I later told my husband, "T eats pussy better than a lot of men I know...not all but a good share."  My turn...I turned her over on the couch, got between her legs and ran my tongue over her pussy.  I began licking and then sucking her clit until she came.  I have to admit I felt like I needed to learn all over again...shit isn't like riding a bike, but then again all bikes are the same basically....all pussy is not made equally...different size lips, different clits and each woman likes a different technique. 
My husband then moved to a chair in our front room and T kneeled in front of him to suck his cock some more.  Meanwhile K and I moved to the couch where they had been.  My husband finally decided to move to the floor, though not any easier of a view to me I really wanted to watch him fuck someone, its been way too long.  It made me think of the first time I asked him to fuck someone...wasn't the best experience for either one of us, but it was me needing to validate I would be ok seeing him with someone else.  I have been known to have a jealous streak, but that was with men I didn't trust...and TRUST me there have been a bunch I would have never been in the lifestyle with (some asked and didn't receive..lol)  But I didn't think I would feel that way with my husband...because we have such a good and open relationship!  Anyways it took me back of how would I feel again, but no worries, nothing had changed.  ;)
He entered her from behind and forced his cock into her wet pussy from behind in a doggy style position and went to town, banging her pussy like it was the last he would ever have.  She was moaning and I caught a glimpse every now and then, but by this time K and I were deep in kissing and touching, sucking and rubbing.  They moved to the loveseat...T climbed on top to ride my husband and then switched back to doggy style and rocked that loveseat until I thought it was going to break in two.  She had cum, he had came. We were all sweating and panting...it had been 2 hrs.  K and I were still at it and decided to take a break at that time.  After talking for a bit they decided to hit the road, it was late....or early, whichever way you see it.

Life has been so busy I really need to catch up on my blog....so lets see, my sex life as a swinger.  Its been going well and you know what I have figured out, we actually evolve as a couple with each experience.  I was talking to a vanilla friend of my ours and explaining how the lifestyle has taught me a lot about sex, my likes, fantasies and about how my body works....the experimentation has been AWESOME!  I told him I think as women we all go through those high school days were you've been with atleast one guy who was "wham, bam, thank you maam!"  Well...usually without the thank you LOL  And that's not to say I didn't have good sex in my younger years...but in comparison never as good as I do now, because I know things about myself that I never knew then.  I didn't know I could have multi orgasms but then again going back to the early days...the men assumed as soon as I came I was done, and so I was.  I didn't know I could squirt...can't even say for awhile I knew women in general could do so.  And though I have always liked sucking cock...I would have to say I have learned some techniques that make it a whole lot better for my partner. Practice makes perfect!!!




So lets see....my husband and I met another couple in town...K & T.  We went to dinner with them, very nice couple and had a wonderful time over Mexican food and drinks.  Its nice to be able to sit down with a couple beforehand and being able to honestly discuss what likes and dislikes they have sexually and since we all know there are different "types" of couples in the lifestyle...its always a topic of interest to discuss where exactly everyone stands.  After dinner they asked us over to their place but considering we RARELY "hook up" with anyone the first time out and...we only had a planned babysitter for so long we graciously declined.  It was nice they asked, but we rarely do that so we can discuss honestly what we thought of them as a couple.  I mean we can go out and have a good time, doesn't mean we want to jump in the sack with them.  It may be they are nice just not sexually compatible.  Now that wasn't the case, but its still nice to discuss with your partner...and we did.  Lets just say the conversation went well and  we called to meet up with them again...only K wasn't available he was working so T was going to come over to play.  At the last minute she cancelled....ok I can't say this didn't annoy me a bit because I am a planner by nature and was doing this for my husband.  I love to do things for him...alittle surprise, but we got over it and ended up going to the club in Ft. Wayne....Insert ...whatever fantasy you want here because it just didn't happen....BOO!  Its really a disappointment when you pay to go to the club and there is just nothing magical about it....but again it happens what can ya do. There was a lot of single men there that night and though we are fine with that, its not what we were looking for. I  hope everyone reading understands this is a honest to God blog about everything good bad and ugly...which includes my feelings about how things go sometimes and how other people don't get me...or maybe I don't get them.  First I will start by saying I demand a lot of respect about myself and think I deserve it.  I do what I want and am with who I want but won't be second best by any means.  Well at the club that night A was there....*see previous blogs...been with him before and had great times.  I never expect when I see him that its a given he wants me or vice versa.  But this night we seen each other, talked etc...all good.  He had been pursuing this girl and by the end of the night they decided they were leaving...so he approaches me and starts touching me and asking me if I want to go back to a room.  Like I said...always a good time, but I was like Nah we are going home.  I understand its just sex and good sex at that, but if you wanted to be with me approach me early on and let me know...don't just settle because someone else wouldn't....ya know??  Maybe it was selfish, but I can get cock anywhere I go and can be choosy...so I chose to leave it.  Not sure we will ever go back there, just seems to always be this way and no great experiences seem to come from there anymore.  BOY do I miss the old Club Utopia.  R didn't know what he had until it all came crumbling down and for those of you newer in the lifestyle that didn't get to go to this club...You missed out!  I will have to write about it all one time in one blog entry because that was before I started writing.
Ok back to K and T...they called one night and wanted to know if we wanted to do something, so we invited them over...really with no expectations...We sat around and talked. I smoke in my kitchen at home and from our kitchen my husband was sitting on the couch were he could see me, so I kept flashing him and he was smiling, K and T were like what is going on in there.  But I was just trying to get my husband ready and horny. K and T came out to the kitchen to smoke, where T was leaned over the island and my husband came up behind her to rub his cock against her. Her and my husband went back into the living room...and K and I stayed in the kitchen.  This is kind of unusual for us because when we play we like to be able to touch each other and K and T didn't seem to mind they couldn't...maybe I am just misunderstanding...but hey like I said previously everyone has different likes/dislikes and are in the lifestyle in different ways. They play separately and we don't...so its probably the difference.  I prefer to see my husband in action and vise versa, its a turn on more than the act itself for us.   Back to the steamy stuff ;)  T straddled my husband and though I couldn't see him, I asked him about it later and said they were kissing and he was licking and sucking her tits.  I did see the tits earlier on in the kitchen and they are nice....some people just don't have pretty tits...I can say this because I do...LOL  So off track there.  So  T got down on her knees and began sucking on my husband's cock.  K and I were still in the kitchen, he was rubbing my back and began kissing my neck and fondling the rest of my body.  I turned towards him and kissed him...good kisser...another thing sometimes hard to find in the lifestyle. And my husband admitted T is a good kisser too...so double plus!  And kissing really is such a turn on to me.  K's got a sensitive neck and reacted greatly to me kissing and lighting sucking on it.  I love reaction...obviously it lets me know, they like it but its a turn on to know you can make it happen.  I began rubbing his cock though his pants and we decided to move to the living room.  By this time my husband has T laid on his lap rubbing her clit.  Shes moaning and enjoying him.  He really does know his way around the pussy and specially a clit....big fan of clit stimulation here, specially when someone is doing it right.  K sits on the couch across from T and my husband and I slip his cock out of his pants and begin sucking his cock.  I try some different techniques because obviously when its someone you've never been with...you gotta find what they really like...I went slow, fast, flicked my tongue and lightly...emphasize LIGHTLY ran my teeth other the head of his cock as I drew it in and out of my mouth. K asks if he can lick my pussy.  Who am I to say no...can you imagine...nah...hells no!  So I slip off my clothes and lay back on the couch, he kneels between my legs and licks and sucks on my pussy til I come a few times.  I could have let him continue, but I am ready to go. I slide back onto the loveseat and he slowly enters my wet pussy.  Hes careful to some degree because his cock is a bit longer and has a slight curve (which I must say in a good position could come in quite handy) In the heat of the moment he does stroke alittle too long, but I must say some of the larger men I have been with are used to it and know when they've done it.  He apologized without needing too...its not as I ever figure these men are doing it on purpose.  Once I am good and wet and used to it then it doesn't bother me as much.  I enjoy others getting as much pleasure as I do.  So lets just say by the time my pussy was dripping wet I was grabbing on his back and ass and pushing him into me.  The loveseat did get alittle awkward and so we switched positions to doggy style.  And he was ramming my pussy in that position.  My tits were bouncing everywhere and it was feeling good.  I just had to wonder if I was feeling good to him. I guess we just get comfortable with our spouse, know exactly what feels good and vice versa, and have to say I just know how to send my husband over the top when I want to.  Some people in the lifestyle I cannot do that with and K was one of them.  But I can't figure I would with it only being our first time together.  I look at it this way...a lot of times you only get one chance to make a first impression....for reasons unknown sometimes people won't be back in touch.  And its a crazy thing, because you have to expect not to know everything about someone right off the bat...and its quite nice to have someone close in our town we can play with every now and then....because as I mentioned earlier, spending the money to go to a club and gamble whether your going to find someone is becoming a crazy waste of money.  It was a good time and we've tried to hook up with them since, T has been flirting with my husband, but since she was unable to truly play that night because of mother nature they haven't gotten down and dirty yet....  But we are still trying...and I am sure y'all will hear about them again real soon ;)

The Long Winter....

Not only has this winter been LOOOOONG, but a big blow for us as swingers, and it has nothing to do with our relationship or sexual desires and has everything with stereotypical assholes who see swinging as taboo or deviant.  Without getting deep into my personal life I will simplify the story...here it goes.  Last fall I got myself into the middle of a HUGE custody battle with an ex.  and needless to say all kinds of BS accusations got thrown, and when push came to shovel it was brought up that myself and my husband were swingers.  We are not shy about letting people know.  Do we go around telling everyone?? Of course not, we own a business and are respected in our community, but we are not afraid to admit it for those that ask...just the way we both are.  Non-judgmental of everyone so why should they judge us for a lifestyle we indulge in here and there.  We don't live the lifestyle everyday of our lives, do we have friends in the lifestyle, of course.  Do we all get together now and then...talk, bullshit and even play, of course we do.  But our kids are not affected by the lifestyle in anyway.  They were trying to say this made us bad parents???  As most of you know we ran Rumours...alittle cozy party every month to keep the mind, body and soul in tact...lol  We have never had parties at our home or  rarely invite others over (rarely is literally like 3 people..a close couple (G & J...anytime, they are friends) and another friend of ours K, but never when the kids were there.  This was enough to tweek my nipples but believe or not they pushed farther.  They submitted as evidence lifestyle pictures of me.  First, I am not ashamed of my body and its a natural beautiful thing..my lifestyle pictures are pretty conservative in comparison.  But my kids have also never seen them and don't have access to my computer to find any pics, any we have are on digital cards, and locked in our gun safe..only 1 key.  The point being how does being the lifestyle and having pictures on the internet effect me being a good mother??  I was so appalled this was happening and at the same time trying to get together Rumours again to re-open in Lima....what a nightmare!  We didn't play all winter,  besides the weather outside was frightful...I was so insulted that something so natural as sex and the permission from your spouse to fuck someone else and do whatever makes you feel good was being judged to the point of conflicting with my ability to be a good mother...for a minute I began to question whether I would leave the lifestyle for good.  Its no fun being judged.  I wasn't humiliated by them having the pictures and they could have shown them in the courtroom for all I cared....shit I had dreams about being on the stand and exposing my breasts to see if they just wanted to see the real thing. lol  Lords knows I would do it for real!  But someone saying it effected who I was otherwise during my family time with my husband and kids....hell no. 
I can tell you the custody case ended....WITHOUT going into Court, and it was a good outcome.  And....we are still swinging, and beyond ready to jump in with both feet and re-open Rumours.  Hope to see all my "friends" soon!!!

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Another g/f???

I am not opposed to bringing in another woman into our relationship and thought J was a good fit.  She is quiet, but pretty and we've both known her for years and shes very sweet.  My husband started talking to her about wanting to spend some time together and really let her know we both wanted this and she was receptive.  Well the other night she came over to spend the night.  We all watched tv, drank a few drinks and talked.  It got late and I crawled into bed and she moved up beside me...we both fell asleep.  The next morning we woke up and my husband had crawled into bed behind me.  He was caressing her hair and I rubbed her back and neck.  She seemed receptive and didn't ask either one of us to stop.  I took things slow...see this g/f as usual had never even kissed a girl.  And the thing with that...for me, is if you aren't bisexual I am not going to force it upon anyone.  My husband on the other hand...is a man and believes every woman is bisexual or should be...hehe.  I agree, but its not always the case.  I reached my hand around to rub around her ribcage and slid my hand up under her breast.  I wasn't going to go up under her bra unless I found her receptive or asked me to.  She never did. My husband then slid his hand around to her other breast and she placed his hand on it.  I wasn't aware of this at the time because we were all under covers.  Thats all the further it went because she got a bad migraine and ended up sick as a dog.  But after my husband made me aware she did that I realized he was not going to get his fantasy...not from her.  See we had this g/f a while back who was straight....but NOT with me and it was one of the most intimate moments I had with any girl.  I know thats what he wants to see again, but it has to all click...and it just wasn't.  Anyways he ended up staying home from work to "take care" of her.  I understand shes a friend and we've known her (and this is going to sound very jeolous of me, but its truely not) but swinging is fucking...its sex and sexual....not emotional.  I have never had to "take care" of any men I fucked....and I know its a difference in the sexes...men are primal and sexual whereas women are emotional.  But I don't want my husband in an emotional relationship with someone we are trying to seduce.  I mean I expect we should all be friends and be respectful and caring towards each other.  But when I see him doing things he would normally reserve for his wife....for another woman.  I just don't get it and don't want it that way.  When I tried to explain it to him, he rationalizes that its just like that with women.  Whats with women?  I am starting to feel unbisexual because I just can't deal with that mentality....the swingers aren't wanting to play....the vanilla women want "relationship" type stuff and the men...well they always just want to fuck...so thats not an issue..lol   I mean i know at the end of the day where my husband is going to be and where his heart is, but I can't help as a woman myself to think its unfair of another woman to think she should have my husband like that...where are all the sluts who just want to fuck and have a good sexual time??  Geesh.    Needless to say after 1/2 the day at our house, J just got up and left, no ty or whatever.  And that was really strange.  Was she regretting it?  Did she think I was mad?  I mean I guess I just put too much thought into all this....again just need a no strings attached slut for my husband. lol    My husband talked to J via txt and she said she just wasn't ready for all this, after a previous break up.. Oh lord...its just sex.  Maybe I am a sexual addict with a mind just alittle like a man, because I am not in a relationship with anyone but my husband....but someone who in this lifestyle is about fucking different people...men and women and if it works out it does, if not...live and learn I guess.   So we will see what happens with this.  Because I know he really wants to fuck her.  I am ok with that, but that needs to be all it is....