Dry Spell...

Its been awhile....too long.
And its not as if we are not trying...on top of our much busy lives.
I had to take sometime to get over B...we went and picked B up to move back, took her to Florida and North Carolina with us but from the second we picked her up, it was just not the same!  She was living with us, talking to other women, talking to other men...after i gave her a commitment ring.  So she had to go, it was interferring with my marriage and I couldnt have that.
I miss and love her always but i have more respect for myself and my husband to put up with that.
After a long 6 months of trying to forget the whole thing I have realized I will never but I can move on. 
My husband began talking to A, she works at a local gas station but I cannot lie even though she was attractive I was still hesitant on how I would feel being with another woman....but I conceded that I would never know until it happened. 
From the get go A was understanding of our lifestyle and had been with other couples.  Even though she had expressed sex is just sex from day 1, we took it slow to get to know who she really was.  Didnt take long for the true colors to show and that this single mom was taking everything she could from people.  We are the most giving people but this lifestyle is about sex and having fun...and this was not going in that direction.  All of a sudden we got that "I own this pussy" attitude and playing games...we will not chase the pussy.  This is not just for us to enjoy but the other person too.....a mutual satisfaction but it became about her really quickly and that doesnt fly with us....so we had to let her go. 
Not sure why people make this so complicated ... But the hunt must go on...
Hoping I have some juicer details to write sbout very soon!

Let's talk about....pussy

I was reading old posts and just had to take a moment to put pussy up on a pedestal!
The biggest turn on to me is running my fingers through a pussy that is gushing with wetness,  It's a huge turn on and I always make sure to tell my partners how wet they are and how turned on I am by it.
So hail to the pussy!💋

Betty Boop

Things in my life have heated up dramatically in the last couple months...
Let me start by saying C is no longer in our lives at all. There was some viable trust issues creeping up....and I will leave it at that.  My hubs and I are swingers to have fun....and playing head games is not fun to us so it had to be ended.
Fast forward....to the present and B....  What can I say about B. Shes chill, easy going, free spirted, beautiful, caring, easy to love .....and always up for great sex ;)
My husband hired her to work for him, and she expressed her interest in me from the rip.  Me, well I wasnt quite sure about B.... guess it wasn't B personally, just a lot of what has gone on in the past with women.  Guess I have trust issues to work on.
She asked me out on a date, so we went to a local Mexican restaurant.  After we arrived at my house we talked for a moment...I leaned in as did she and we kissed.  Any and all details from then until today well....honestly they been all caught on video.  Very erotic video if I must say so myself.  
What I can say is the sex was different then any woman I had ever been with, very intimate...we held hands making love, we kissed softly and always fell asleep cuddling....I fell in love with her.  And my husband loved her.  She added to our lives in many ways and sex was just part of the deal.
She moved out of state...many states away.  I miss her, it really threw me off how much I missed her...still do and at first I attempted to get her to move back but it wasn't my place to be selfish in this way.  I used to talk to her daily, at first but its been quite awhile.  From what I hear shes doing well, and its all I ever wanted for her...

Fb friends

👯So..... I had been adding alot of new friends to fb...mostly women locally who i thought networking would be benefical to my business alot of HOT women I must add
All of a sudden during the same weekend I ran into and actually met a few of them.
Thats how C crept into our lives...
My husband and I were at a local club and she was sitting at the end of the bar. I told him she looked familiar but not sure from where. He finally went and asked her name and brought her back over to offically meet. We ran into her a few times here and there and I could tell my husband was defintitely interested.
We invited her over one Friday night just to see how we all clicked.  She came over for a campfire. We all hung out and talked for awhile.  There was alittle discussion about us being swingers but nothing too indepth.  We wanted to be friends with her first and foremost...and not scare her to death.
Shes a Pretty woman and I could tell my husband wanted to fuck her...I was another story at first.  It takes me longer to warm up to strangers and she had made a comment..she had been with women but that wasnt her thing right now... Regardless shes a cool chick who is definitely easy on the eyes.
So one night we invite her over. We all end up in the hottub...for 5 hrs!  As we got out the sun was coming up. I mainly set back watching my husband her her touching and kissing.  I joined in here and there kissing her and sucking on her nipples now and then. It was exciting to watch. I sat at the opposite side of the hottub rubbing her leg as my husband rubbed her pussy.  It was intrequing at times to wonder what was going on under the water....sometimes I let my imagination run wild and at other times each of our hands would touch.
Once we finally got out my husband and I went upstairs and had sex.  Its always good sex after being aroused by the sights and sounds of foreplay. My husband was beyond ready!!

Benefits of Owning a Lifestyle Club

I like to believe I live a charmed life, I have a great husband who loves me so deeply (and I love him deeply back) we logically make a great team, and I really am afforded many great opportunities and I try to do the same with him. I know and believe I live a charmed life!

One of those charms happens to be the benefit of owning a lifestyle not only because we meet alot of people, who become great friends and sometimes great fucks.

This weekend we decided not to open the club, it's a weekend right after a holiday and many travel to visit family & friends...so my me and husband and K went down there to work on playlists and a few things for the grand opening.  We got some great ideas hashed out.  It was a productive night for getting some details worked out!
As the night wore on my husband and I relaxed in our sex cushions we have facing the dance floor.  It was nice to relax, he reached over kissed me on the neck and slid his hand around my back to unhook my bra.  He rubbed my bare back from my ass to my neck...soooo relaxing..ahhhh. I leaned into him and deeply kissed him, sucking on his tongue, my mouth became wet, as did my pussy! He slipped his hands around to lift my top and expose my breasts.  Taking each nipple into his wet lips, sucking and licking each one back and forth.  I then removed my top and my husband called K over to admire my brown, thick nipples.  With a little coaxing K reached over and caressed my nipple.  I had two men touching me, my little slice of heaven.  I laid back onto my husband's lap, looked up at him as he held a handful of my hair in his hand...and smiled.  
I reached over and released K's cock from his pants and began rubbing and caressing him, down the shaft and gently over his balls. At this point I am thinking if I could just turn myself around and put my wet mouth on his cock..mmmmm. 
My husband and K slid off my boots and pants and they both began rubbing my pussy, it was hot, wet and ready!
K slid his pants off and I slid to the edge of the cushions. He rubbed the head of his cock up and down my clit and in between my pussy lips. Then slowly inserted his thick cock in the inter sanctum of my love canal.  I pulled my legs back and let him stroke me until i came so hard the juices ran off my ass.  
We then all decided to move upstairs to a bedroom.  I finally got the chance to suck K's cock and slid my mouth down to the base of his penis. His skin was soft and I imagined his penis tasted like chocolate, dark chocolate.  
He laid me back, and entered my wet pussy for a second time and slid in and out, pulling out slow and rubbing between my lips here and there. My husband laid behind me watching, I grabbed K's legs and pulled him deeper into me. Again my pussy was dripping and ready to cum.  We did.  My husband crawled up beside me on the bed and I began sucking his cock. It was hard as it could be and he exceptionally horny. I picked around his head and thrust his cock deep into my throat and before I knew it I could taste the cum in my mouth. 

I like being pleased but it's just as much of a turn on to know you have pleased your partner and this lifestyle we share allows us to please each other (and others) in ways some people could only imagine.  I can't imagine my charmed life getting any better....but just wait til the parties start....it's gonna be one helluva place to party and tons of great sex!!!

Massage

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S in the house

Its been awhile since I wrote, so I have to go back a bit.  Over the winter I did finally have S come over to the house to fuck me....well my husband had a big hand in it and thought maybe it could become an every once in awhile "thing" ;) 
I was up in the bedroom, just a robe on.  He came up in the room and removed his clothes crawled up beside me.  He kissed me on the neck and my lips. He wasted no time in reaching between my legs to massage my clit.  I came several times and we were def worked up quickly.  He rolled me over and entered from behind,  but I was completely laying on my stomach.  He was def hitting the spot and I came a few more times during sex.
These details aren't as wonderful as my others because unfortunately I waited to write this and since he never wrote or called me again, well...it is what it is.   I wondered a lot if he expected more of a freak.  I can be conservative at times, specially upon the first meeting and I don't know it just seems I was more reserved then usual.
Onto the present...we haven't had a chance to go anywhere or even play since winter...I have been waiting for my husband to get his chance and it seems he has finally found someone.  This is gonna sound crazy coming from a swinger...imagine that?  But women seem to take alittle more finessing then men.  You know I love watching my husband fuck other women..helloooo   But the seduction, it feels strange.  Am I the only one who feels this way?  Should I even feel this way?  I trust my husband more then he thinks or will ever realize, but I also know women...  And this feeling isn't jealousy, though I am a Leo and used to having and needed a lot of attention...but its not that its that.  I don't know.  We are all planning to go to the club this weekend in Fort Wayne, and so we will see how this all plays out.....
Guess I will need atleast a bottle to deal with all this....sometimes I think like a man, but have emotions like a girl...which totally sucks!!

Break is over....??

I wasnt sure I would be back in the lifestyle, wasnt sure if I to...
I have a kinda post script to my last published post.  I just posted it the other day but wrote.it bk in Nov, 2014...guess i never hit the publish button...hmmm, def human error.
Sooooo before "the break" i had wrote a single guy-"S" and expressed interest in meeting him.  He had wrote me but by then my husband and I had decided to take a break...
Thoughout the last couple months I would ask him about other women..if he found them attractive or would like to fuck them.  He would 9 times out of 10 indicate he would. So i knew the lifestyle wasnt dead in our relationship, though the break was nice for a bit..concentrating on our family and ourselves. 
My husband also began asking me about S and if I was interested in fucking him...I was, but being respectful to our relationship I would have never entered back into the lifesytle without mu husband.  Wr entered together and the allure of the lifestyle is really just my husband being a part of it, whether its interacting or just watching.  He started pressing me about S, and i indicated at that point i couldnt just jump back with a single guy, i have more respect for our relationship.  I started to q at that time if I ever could....
We discussed this in depth and all the talking aroused my senses more and more. I understand when he tells me that me being aroused by another man is a turn on. 
Well i finaly let go and S stopped by the other night before work so I could meet him.  He a nice, down to earth guy that I may just have to fuck ;)  I hugged him when he left and he got a couple handfuls of ass...and made it a point to meet up again.
After, my husband and I were sitting on the couch..he pulled me on top of him and I began to grind my pussy on his cock, we kissed {have I mentioned how much it turns me on?}
Softly...then alittle rougher, sucking on his tonque.  My pussy was flowing! I pulled off my skirt and climbed up upon his face, and rode it like a cowgirl.  I came a few times, and one was a different kind of orgasism..just more vaginal, and niiiiccceee! I then backed down onto his cock.  Eiding him slow and steady at first with the rhythm of a flowing ocean within my pelvis...rocking and rolling.  Then speeding up to take in his whole cock as deep as I could thrusting faster and faster.  All i could hear as my husband came too is the suction made as my cum soaked our bodies. 

Taking a break....

Whats to say except maybe it was time...there is a lot going on and has been in our household and a lot of unknown rules that didn't apply to me but applied to my husband....which isn't fair to either of us.  I can see that over time hes given me a lot of leeway to do things I wanted and me being the rebel I have always been just kinda assumed it was all ok. 
Swinging is complicated....it always has been but we've been careful to attempt to not make any mistakes to keep our relationship solid.  And that is #1 before anything.  So I respect any wishes he asks and vice versa.
That's about all I can say right now.....our future with swinging is undetermined...and that's ok. 
Because like I said before #1 is us and our family and our business and last in line to all else that matters is swinging.

Halloween Partay 2014

Love, Love, Love Halloween, so these types of parties are right up my alley!  If I don't have a million costumes for the clubs, and a million more for just Halloween, but always club theme appropriate too ;) 
We invited just a small group of friends over to our party and thought it would be better this way to get to know each other and just hang out and see who, if anyone clicks.  R & T, D & K, D & E and another couple, she was M...and sorry I am just not always good with names :(  The other couples had either been to our parties, we had dinner/drinks with or hung with them at other parties. ...so my apologies to them.
I had been emailing D (of D & K)...lord too D's now I have to specify...anyways for a couple weeks before the party.  They do not full swap and that's ok but I wanted to know their boundaries because she had expressed interest in my husband and so I was trying to get what exactly their rules were....so anyways basically we were told he didn't play at all and she could do what she felt was right, and of course with him there...ok.  This had to be mentioned so one could understand the complexity of swinging sometimes and for this specific situation.
So I had the house decorated, the food made, and we had made our costumes this year...as if anyone cares about costumes when were are all trying to get someone else out of theirs...lol  But I had Day of the Dead costumes...turned out pretty cool, if I say so myself.
D & K were the first ones to arrive.  She is very quiet and him, not so much.  But one has to compliment the other.  I took her to be more submissive of a woman then I am used to, but again I wasn't really looking at her in that manner, except a possible fuck for my husband...she is not bisexual...maybe bi curious you do me kinda thing.  But I really like the total interaction you get with women...I am by no means selfish, but its very erotic when two women are both into the sexuality of the whole thing.  R & T then showed up...at first they had indicated they couldn't make it and they are a great couple.  But R and I had attempted to hook up 2x before this and guess we knew this was it, after 2 yrs of foreplay....we were going to be fucking that night. Oh yes.  But it posed a dilemma for my husband because he had already been with T before and really enjoys her...oh as do I, just for the record ;0  But already had kinda put a bug in K's ear about interest in her.  Wow...for many men this is not a dilemma in theory, but in reality most men cannot fuck multiple times in a row.  And though my husband could it would take some time in between...
Well D & K sat on each side of me on the couch and K put her arm around me...I was alittle perplexed with her seeming so submissive but taking that move....and not truly being bisexual.  I just didn't know what this chick was up to.  Was I thinking about it too hard?  A few other couples arrived and we all made our way to the kitchen, chatting, drinking, snacking.  A few of us went outside to smoke...it was a warm night...perfect. We had the Jacuzzi running and ready to go.  So my husband light a fire and we all sat out there and talked.  Meanwhile D & K went in the Jacuzzi.  This is the difficult thing, I wasn't interested in being with her in that way, but my husband was and we play together...that's the sexy thing about swinging, watching himself enjoying sex.  But as hosts we couldn't just leave everyone sitting outside.  They were pushing it alittle fast.  They asked me to get in at one time and it looked wonderful, but again everyone was still there and just hanging out having a good time...so I need to play hostess, and my husband felt like I was excluded when they asked him. We discussed it and I was ok with it all regardless.
While inside D & E came in and at one point my husband asked to see E's tits...she attempted to pull them out of her shirt and it was tight and she indicated she couldn't get them out.  I call bullshit.  Sorry but where is the swinging of the 70's boy I missed out because I would have fit right in.  I have no reservations about showing my body, letting people touch me etc....I don't know, just not uptight like a lot of people these days.  Its a lot of work to find a couple where everything is just right with all.
About 1230-1am the other couples left...leaving us, R & T and D & K....I was like ok hows this gonna work. My husband never fucked K yet...and T still wants him to fuck her....now hes out of time and screwed.  Again I was in the kitchen hanging with Rick...just kinda teasing him and we were seeing how it was all going to work out.  He rubbed my ass, but he was doing that on and off through the evening. ;0  I pulled up his toga and he was naked...I began rubbing his cock.  He was playing rubbing my pussy and T came in and was talking to us across the table and she could hear how wet I had become.  My husband came in and I bent forward to suck his cock and rub my pussy against R's cock.  That was nice, mfm is always nice.
K had tried out the sybian, and I had told her husband to let my husband handle the controls...we've owned it for awhile and him and I both know ...mine more from usage what works and whats best.  Her husband handled the control. And she was moaning and came.  T then indicated that she wanted to try it, so R, T and myself went to the living room and she let my husband take the controls.  At first I sat with R and watched, but I couldn't resist sucking on those lovely nipples of T's...yummy! 
 After which I came back to R and he sucked on my nipples getting my pussy super wet and his wife slid between my legs and licked my clit and lips til I came. I sucked on R's cock...and then he moved me to the couch and slid down between my legs making me cum until I couldn't even remember how many times.
I watched my husband play with K, as her husband D was fucking her.  My husband then came up and sat beside me and cocked one leg up on his shoulder.  I have to say I prefer to be able to touch my husband even if its just here and there...what a total turn on.  T began to suck my husbands cock. I enjoyed watching that for sure.  I love sucking cock and enjoy watching it.
T came up beside me and I played with her clit and rubbed her pussy til it was soaked.  I was moaning, T was moaning....we were rockin that shit.
R indicated he could eat my pussy all night long, he did and it felt good as a mofo! 
I crawled on top of R and guided him deep within my very wet and hot pussy. I rode him slow and rode him fast and hard.  R grabbed me by my hair and positioned me where he wanted to me. I glance over many times to see my husband and T fucking...it was always a different position.
You know my husband was in such a dilemma but things always work out for the best.  Always a good time at one of our Halloween Partays!!!
Lets do it again...next yr.  Oh the sex, much sooner but def a 3rd annual Halloween party! :)

Rumours @Club Princeton...

Invited to Club Princeton.....to host a party!!! 
 I was soooo excited! Little ol me..hmmmm  I was now stepping into the big leagues.  I didn't know what I had coming, but I did know I was ready to host parties again.
The thing about hosting though...is the anxiety you have about people showing and interacting.  And see after doing Rumours parties....they were always soooo just like I expected....even if everyone didn't want to have sex with each other....they atleast were interacting and making friends. It was very social and very sexy if nothing more....
The night we went to Princeton...Murphy's Law set in..if something could go wrong it did.  But we pressed on through a flat tire on the way and only getting there a 1/2 hr before the party started.  We had offered a special rate for early arrival....and only a few couples took advantage of it. 
This is the thing....the people at Club Princeton I met were very nice, BUT I was very disappointed in our NW Ohio showing.  I guess I expected the support more from them then anyone and we got very little.  Look I understand that people have plans and other reasons for not being able to show.  But only a select few wrote us to even tell us.   I even understand its a ride to Columbus and back for an evening.  I just know we could have knocked their socks off and people just didn't come through.  I have had a million people ask if and when we are re-opening in Lima and I think its probably safe to say that's the way to go because even though we heard a lot of people say they were worried about running into people they knew....there are also a lot of people who want to stay local and not spend $100+ for a night out and then not even have the guarantee of finding someone else to play.  We never do have that but the cheaper it is to find that out...the better.   Regardless of play, at Rumours we all seemed to be a family and my husband and myself always made sure everyone had a good time!!
We do have plans to go back to Club Princeton in 2015 but in the meantime....we are pressing on to find a place NW Ohio can come together~~!!!!

3 Men....and ME!

My husband invited his buddy, Jc from out of town to stay with us a couple days...he was off work on vacation...so the first night, there was a lot of this and that between them.  Knew they were up to something....and that's ok in my book.  Another man who works for my husband was here...J...LOL  I cooked up some bbq chicken on the grill w/corn on the cob.  We all had a few drinks....my husband also had invited T over.  We all sat around the fire for awhile...and finally went inside for some extra curricular activities....
T sat with J and next thing I knew she was giving J a blowjob until she swallowed all he had.
I had went in to take a bath, and she came into say goodbye.  She sat beside my garden tub and rubbed my nipples and played with my pussy a bit.  My husband came into watch and so did J.  It was a turn on for me, as usual to be watched. I looked up and watched them touching themselves watching me in the bath.
I washed and got out, went to the kitchen to smoke a cig.  While I was sitting on a chair in the kitchen. J came up and kneeled in front of me, spread my legs and started gently licking my pussy.  I became wet instantly.  Theres one thing a woman can't deny...getting your pussy licked feels so damn good. My husband crept up behind me and started kissing my neck and playing with my nipple.  It wasn't long before J jumped in a began sucking on the other nipple. I could feel myself getting wetter and wetter til I thought I was going to slip and slide off the chair.  My husband then grabbed my neck and applied a little pressure.  The groaning became harder to do, as my pussy got wetter then its ever been.
I then moved to the living room floor, Jc again was between my legs licking up my cum, when he flipped me over on my stomach and began to lick my asshole and pussy.  Shit....writing about it is getting me wet all over again....anyways.  My husband and J were again playing with my nipples, kissing me and rubbing my clit.  I came again and again...and again.
I rolled over and Jc entered my pussy with his cock.  Hes alittle larger then the average man, but nothing I can't handle.  He had me on my back, legs cocked up and entered sideways.  It felt good and at one point I thought he was going to make me squirt. He was gentle...think hes just been told so many times that he hurt them, but I was backing down on it to make sure he knew I could take what he had. 

My time is valuable....

If I could make the above statement flash I would...shit I am not complaining, but....ok I am alittle bit.  I just wish people would value and respect my time as much as their's. 
I had two incidents in the last two weeks that I just had to walk away from because I am really funny about my time with my family and vanilla friends...
The first a friend of mine called me and asked if I could come over to their house and have a 3some with them to surprise them for their anniversary.  I was hesitant because my husband and I are full swap same room.  But he does trust me and this is something as a single woman I have never done...been the 3rd in a 3some w/a couple.  Anyways I worked 7a-7p that day and asked if we could do it the next day.  T indicated to me she only had a sitter for that night.  So I agreed, I came home exhausted, took a long bath and got dressed..make up the whole 9 yards....then I waited, and waited and waited.  I was suppose to go over at 9pm...and I was getting tired then, but still up for it.  T texted me and the kids were still there, so she said she would text me when they left.  She ended up texting me back at 10:30p...and she was ready.  Lord have mercy.  Needless to say I couldn't help it I was almost asleep on the couch and I never left my couch except to go to my own bed.
The second incident was on the 4th of July.  We had met a couple online and been to a cookout at their house.  Nice couple and was only looking for g on g deal.  So I was like what the hell.  We invited them over and no distinct plan was made on time, but when my husband texted them that day...they were out of town.  Ok...shit happens, but then they texted him again and said they would be over real soon....we waited, and waited....they finally showed at 11pm.  Really we invite you to a cookout and this is the respect we get? Needless to say I sat around the fire with them for a bit, then went inside and laid down.  They soon followed but I then went up stairs to bed.
I get it everyone has a life, but that also applies to us!  ...I am giving up the pussy for free and in return hopefully having a good time myself, but I had the opportunity on the 4th of July to go to a festival myself, which I declined because I didn't want to be rude.  But we were the ones who got treated rudely.  Just tired of selfish people, and if they don't care about us and our time then I don't care about them getting pussy ;)  

SURPRISE....3some 

My husband worked all day and took down 12 trees in the hot sun.  He had asked me for a massage when he came home from working all day.  I told him of course and will even get the massage table out and make it an official massage.  Hes been working hard lately and deserves it!
I had been texting T off and on this day and when I told her he wanted her to come over to give him a massage....she replied back, let me make sure its ok with K and I will get back with you....hint well taken! :D
She texted me back that he was ok with it and asked when....I told her to give me a bit to set things up and I would text her back.  I ran a bath for my husband, txt'd T back and told her to come over in about 15 mins.  While he was in the bath I quietly let her in and told her to be quiet.  I followed her in and told her he was in the bath...she went and stood at the door until he noticed her there.  He was quite delightful shocked. (yeah me!)
After getting out of the bath, he laid on the massage table with just his towel around him.  T had brought oil and we rubbed his back, neck, arms, hands, legs, feet and butt.  We left no stone unturned.  We talked the whole time.  I left the room to go to the kitchen to smoke.  I could see them from where I was standing.  T took some ice into her mouth a sucked on his nipple.  Then leaned over to sucked on his cock and looked back at me smiling.  I knew he was wondering just where I was in the room and sometimes out of sight alitle gets good results!  I came back in the room where we then took turns sucking his cock and sucking on his nipples.  We sucked his cock together...one of his favs!   His hands were exploring our bodies, he was rubbing my wet pussy and his other hand was occupied with T's tit.  We all agreed he had it going on right at that moment. He agreed!!!
He then took T's tit into his mouth.  How he was sucking on it and being able to watch close up was a huge turn on.  She began sucking on his cock and I moved around the table on her side and slid my hand up between her hot thighs...her pussy was wet and I slid my fingers inside and fingerbanged her pussy. 
We all moved to the couch and she slid between my legs.  I grabbed up all her hair to keep it out of her face. She was licking and sucking...when my husband snuck up behind her with my strap on...and slid that huge cock into her pussy.  He was rolling his hips, first slow and then faster and faster.  Meanwhile her face is being shoved in my pussy.  It was really nice to be able to watch and focus on them. She admitted that a man had never used a strap on with her and she liked it because his actual cock was slapping her clit at the same time and made her cum. 

Did Anyone Else Ever Have One Of These.....

So...where do I start?  I am not trying to come off rude, but I just don't know what to think about people who are over bearing. 

There is this couple and we've been with them a few times...that's cool, but they like to drop in and over stay their welcome....and even fall asleep on our couch without asking.  Again, I am really not trying to be the one to cause drama, or make this a big deal, but I am a very private person and we do have kids...so my home is my sanctuary...

So the other night was my mom's birthday and she came over for pizza and gifts etc.  The wife shows up at our house unexpected and my mom is on her way.  No big deal, but no call or text or anything...  My mom arrives and she leaves.  She then calls a couple hrs later and asks me if shes still there....what?  My mom is in her 70's w/Parkinsons so I try to spend as much time with her as possible....I was like WHATEVER....tried to over look that it was already arranged with them (her husband) to come over to pick our truck up (another long story) but anyways...They showed up as she was leaving...again, no big deal. 

My husband talked with them outside and I took our son in to get a bath.  They talked and talked, etc. I was like ok...whatever again.  Part of this conversation involved her not using birth control and what if she got pregnant...she was like "oh well"...I was like Oh well my ass because it won't be with my husband.  What a fucking disaster that would fucking be ....this is not 20 yr old drama....ain't goin there!  Plus while talking she said, why don't you go take a bath and we'll give you a massage...ok this girl is on her period...and I swear I have a man's brain because the swinging isn't a relationship to me...its just sex.  I don't need all that extra to get in the mood...just sex....

The husband left to go to work and in my husband comes with her in tow....again, its family time.  And now I believe she is overstepping her welcome, but I am nice and don't say anything.  She sits in our kitchen and talks...I go in and play wii w/my son.  Its then his bedtime so I take him upstairs and when my husband comes up, he informs me she has fallen asleep on our couch...I said, well go wake her and tell her shes got to go.  He either doesn't want to be rude...hmmm, so not like him most days...or doesn't want to lose his piece of ass.  By this time I am pissed.  I wanted to have sex with him, but at this point she has ruined all that. .

I know this is not my usual post about our great escapades, but they are getting screwed up by this couple and I think I have had enough....my husband of course doesn't see things like I do and I don't think ....especially her are going to leave us alone anytime soon.....

SOOOOO FINALLY my husband got to fuck T....

We all went out to dinner and my husband the flirt decided to flip the script on T and she was the only one not in on the deal...He sat by her at dinner and I sat by K.  They flirted thru dinner, and assuming there was some rubbing under the table...but I have to say my husband was flirting with everyone that night...the waitress, R...what a good sport for dealing with him, but as she said he made the night interesting for her.  
We left there and hung out at our house for a bit.  My husband laid on the couch and T laid back on him rubbing his leg and eventually pulling out his cock and sucking on it.  I was on the other side of her and it was hard to see...I like to watch!   I just feel like sometimes this couple is so used to playing separately that they don't enjoy watching each other.  The thrill in swinging is to watch my husband and see what is turning him on, whats being done different by him and by the other person and vice versa...I like him watching me.   But to each their own....just move so I can watch :D
I left the room and came back in, T was naked and began undressing me....all while kissing me and sucking on my tits.  I gladly received this attention. I myself have not been with a woman in awhile either...kinda picky and I just have to have motivation...I tend to fall for straight girls...don't know why...don't ask!  But her mouth felt good...wet, warm and begging for more.  I laid back on the couch and she licked my pussy...moving from my pussy to my clit, back and forth.  It didn't take long before I exploded into her mouth and my wet pussy left a puddle.  I later told my husband, "T eats pussy better than a lot of men I know...not all but a good share."  My turn...I turned her over on the couch, got between her legs and ran my tongue over her pussy.  I began licking and then sucking her clit until she came.  I have to admit I felt like I needed to learn all over again...shit isn't like riding a bike, but then again all bikes are the same basically....all pussy is not made equally...different size lips, different clits and each woman likes a different technique. 
My husband then moved to a chair in our front room and T kneeled in front of him to suck his cock some more.  Meanwhile K and I moved to the couch where they had been.  My husband finally decided to move to the floor, though not any easier of a view to me I really wanted to watch him fuck someone, its been way too long.  It made me think of the first time I asked him to fuck someone...wasn't the best experience for either one of us, but it was me needing to validate I would be ok seeing him with someone else.  I have been known to have a jealous streak, but that was with men I didn't trust...and TRUST me there have been a bunch I would have never been in the lifestyle with (some asked and didn't receive..lol)  But I didn't think I would feel that way with my husband...because we have such a good and open relationship!  Anyways it took me back of how would I feel again, but no worries, nothing had changed.  ;)
He entered her from behind and forced his cock into her wet pussy from behind in a doggy style position and went to town, banging her pussy like it was the last he would ever have.  She was moaning and I caught a glimpse every now and then, but by this time K and I were deep in kissing and touching, sucking and rubbing.  They moved to the loveseat...T climbed on top to ride my husband and then switched back to doggy style and rocked that loveseat until I thought it was going to break in two.  She had cum, he had came. We were all sweating and panting...it had been 2 hrs.  K and I were still at it and decided to take a break at that time.  After talking for a bit they decided to hit the road, it was late....or early, whichever way you see it.

Life has been so busy I really need to catch up on my blog....so lets see, my sex life as a swinger.  Its been going well and you know what I have figured out, we actually evolve as a couple with each experience.  I was talking to a vanilla friend of my ours and explaining how the lifestyle has taught me a lot about sex, my likes, fantasies and about how my body works....the experimentation has been AWESOME!  I told him I think as women we all go through those high school days were you've been with atleast one guy who was "wham, bam, thank you maam!"  Well...usually without the thank you LOL  And that's not to say I didn't have good sex in my younger years...but in comparison never as good as I do now, because I know things about myself that I never knew then.  I didn't know I could have multi orgasms but then again going back to the early days...the men assumed as soon as I came I was done, and so I was.  I didn't know I could squirt...can't even say for awhile I knew women in general could do so.  And though I have always liked sucking cock...I would have to say I have learned some techniques that make it a whole lot better for my partner. Practice makes perfect!!!




So lets see....my husband and I met another couple in town...K & T.  We went to dinner with them, very nice couple and had a wonderful time over Mexican food and drinks.  Its nice to be able to sit down with a couple beforehand and being able to honestly discuss what likes and dislikes they have sexually and since we all know there are different "types" of couples in the lifestyle...its always a topic of interest to discuss where exactly everyone stands.  After dinner they asked us over to their place but considering we RARELY "hook up" with anyone the first time out and...we only had a planned babysitter for so long we graciously declined.  It was nice they asked, but we rarely do that so we can discuss honestly what we thought of them as a couple.  I mean we can go out and have a good time, doesn't mean we want to jump in the sack with them.  It may be they are nice just not sexually compatible.  Now that wasn't the case, but its still nice to discuss with your partner...and we did.  Lets just say the conversation went well and  we called to meet up with them again...only K wasn't available he was working so T was going to come over to play.  At the last minute she cancelled....ok I can't say this didn't annoy me a bit because I am a planner by nature and was doing this for my husband.  I love to do things for him...alittle surprise, but we got over it and ended up going to the club in Ft. Wayne....Insert ...whatever fantasy you want here because it just didn't happen....BOO!  Its really a disappointment when you pay to go to the club and there is just nothing magical about it....but again it happens what can ya do. There was a lot of single men there that night and though we are fine with that, its not what we were looking for. I  hope everyone reading understands this is a honest to God blog about everything good bad and ugly...which includes my feelings about how things go sometimes and how other people don't get me...or maybe I don't get them.  First I will start by saying I demand a lot of respect about myself and think I deserve it.  I do what I want and am with who I want but won't be second best by any means.  Well at the club that night A was there....*see previous blogs...been with him before and had great times.  I never expect when I see him that its a given he wants me or vice versa.  But this night we seen each other, talked etc...all good.  He had been pursuing this girl and by the end of the night they decided they were leaving...so he approaches me and starts touching me and asking me if I want to go back to a room.  Like I said...always a good time, but I was like Nah we are going home.  I understand its just sex and good sex at that, but if you wanted to be with me approach me early on and let me know...don't just settle because someone else wouldn't....ya know??  Maybe it was selfish, but I can get cock anywhere I go and can be choosy...so I chose to leave it.  Not sure we will ever go back there, just seems to always be this way and no great experiences seem to come from there anymore.  BOY do I miss the old Club Utopia.  R didn't know what he had until it all came crumbling down and for those of you newer in the lifestyle that didn't get to go to this club...You missed out!  I will have to write about it all one time in one blog entry because that was before I started writing.
Ok back to K and T...they called one night and wanted to know if we wanted to do something, so we invited them over...really with no expectations...We sat around and talked. I smoke in my kitchen at home and from our kitchen my husband was sitting on the couch were he could see me, so I kept flashing him and he was smiling, K and T were like what is going on in there.  But I was just trying to get my husband ready and horny. K and T came out to the kitchen to smoke, where T was leaned over the island and my husband came up behind her to rub his cock against her. Her and my husband went back into the living room...and K and I stayed in the kitchen.  This is kind of unusual for us because when we play we like to be able to touch each other and K and T didn't seem to mind they couldn't...maybe I am just misunderstanding...but hey like I said previously everyone has different likes/dislikes and are in the lifestyle in different ways. They play separately and we don't...so its probably the difference.  I prefer to see my husband in action and vise versa, its a turn on more than the act itself for us.   Back to the steamy stuff ;)  T straddled my husband and though I couldn't see him, I asked him about it later and said they were kissing and he was licking and sucking her tits.  I did see the tits earlier on in the kitchen and they are nice....some people just don't have pretty tits...I can say this because I do...LOL  So off track there.  So  T got down on her knees and began sucking on my husband's cock.  K and I were still in the kitchen, he was rubbing my back and began kissing my neck and fondling the rest of my body.  I turned towards him and kissed him...good kisser...another thing sometimes hard to find in the lifestyle. And my husband admitted T is a good kisser too...so double plus!  And kissing really is such a turn on to me.  K's got a sensitive neck and reacted greatly to me kissing and lighting sucking on it.  I love reaction...obviously it lets me know, they like it but its a turn on to know you can make it happen.  I began rubbing his cock though his pants and we decided to move to the living room.  By this time my husband has T laid on his lap rubbing her clit.  Shes moaning and enjoying him.  He really does know his way around the pussy and specially a clit....big fan of clit stimulation here, specially when someone is doing it right.  K sits on the couch across from T and my husband and I slip his cock out of his pants and begin sucking his cock.  I try some different techniques because obviously when its someone you've never been with...you gotta find what they really like...I went slow, fast, flicked my tongue and lightly...emphasize LIGHTLY ran my teeth other the head of his cock as I drew it in and out of my mouth. K asks if he can lick my pussy.  Who am I to say no...can you imagine...nah...hells no!  So I slip off my clothes and lay back on the couch, he kneels between my legs and licks and sucks on my pussy til I come a few times.  I could have let him continue, but I am ready to go. I slide back onto the loveseat and he slowly enters my wet pussy.  Hes careful to some degree because his cock is a bit longer and has a slight curve (which I must say in a good position could come in quite handy) In the heat of the moment he does stroke alittle too long, but I must say some of the larger men I have been with are used to it and know when they've done it.  He apologized without needing too...its not as I ever figure these men are doing it on purpose.  Once I am good and wet and used to it then it doesn't bother me as much.  I enjoy others getting as much pleasure as I do.  So lets just say by the time my pussy was dripping wet I was grabbing on his back and ass and pushing him into me.  The loveseat did get alittle awkward and so we switched positions to doggy style.  And he was ramming my pussy in that position.  My tits were bouncing everywhere and it was feeling good.  I just had to wonder if I was feeling good to him. I guess we just get comfortable with our spouse, know exactly what feels good and vice versa, and have to say I just know how to send my husband over the top when I want to.  Some people in the lifestyle I cannot do that with and K was one of them.  But I can't figure I would with it only being our first time together.  I look at it this way...a lot of times you only get one chance to make a first impression....for reasons unknown sometimes people won't be back in touch.  And its a crazy thing, because you have to expect not to know everything about someone right off the bat...and its quite nice to have someone close in our town we can play with every now and then....because as I mentioned earlier, spending the money to go to a club and gamble whether your going to find someone is becoming a crazy waste of money.  It was a good time and we've tried to hook up with them since, T has been flirting with my husband, but since she was unable to truly play that night because of mother nature they haven't gotten down and dirty yet....  But we are still trying...and I am sure y'all will hear about them again real soon ;)

The Long Winter....

Not only has this winter been LOOOOONG, but a big blow for us as swingers, and it has nothing to do with our relationship or sexual desires and has everything with stereotypical assholes who see swinging as taboo or deviant.  Without getting deep into my personal life I will simplify the story...here it goes.  Last fall I got myself into the middle of a HUGE custody battle with an ex.  and needless to say all kinds of BS accusations got thrown, and when push came to shovel it was brought up that myself and my husband were swingers.  We are not shy about letting people know.  Do we go around telling everyone?? Of course not, we own a business and are respected in our community, but we are not afraid to admit it for those that ask...just the way we both are.  Non-judgmental of everyone so why should they judge us for a lifestyle we indulge in here and there.  We don't live the lifestyle everyday of our lives, do we have friends in the lifestyle, of course.  Do we all get together now and then...talk, bullshit and even play, of course we do.  But our kids are not affected by the lifestyle in anyway.  They were trying to say this made us bad parents???  As most of you know we ran Rumours...alittle cozy party every month to keep the mind, body and soul in tact...lol  We have never had parties at our home or  rarely invite others over (rarely is literally like 3 people..a close couple (G & J...anytime, they are friends) and another friend of ours K, but never when the kids were there.  This was enough to tweek my nipples but believe or not they pushed farther.  They submitted as evidence lifestyle pictures of me.  First, I am not ashamed of my body and its a natural beautiful thing..my lifestyle pictures are pretty conservative in comparison.  But my kids have also never seen them and don't have access to my computer to find any pics, any we have are on digital cards, and locked in our gun safe..only 1 key.  The point being how does being the lifestyle and having pictures on the internet effect me being a good mother??  I was so appalled this was happening and at the same time trying to get together Rumours again to re-open in Lima....what a nightmare!  We didn't play all winter,  besides the weather outside was frightful...I was so insulted that something so natural as sex and the permission from your spouse to fuck someone else and do whatever makes you feel good was being judged to the point of conflicting with my ability to be a good mother...for a minute I began to question whether I would leave the lifestyle for good.  Its no fun being judged.  I wasn't humiliated by them having the pictures and they could have shown them in the courtroom for all I cared....shit I had dreams about being on the stand and exposing my breasts to see if they just wanted to see the real thing. lol  Lords knows I would do it for real!  But someone saying it effected who I was otherwise during my family time with my husband and kids....hell no. 
I can tell you the custody case ended....WITHOUT going into Court, and it was a good outcome.  And....we are still swinging, and beyond ready to jump in with both feet and re-open Rumours.  Hope to see all my "friends" soon!!!

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Another g/f???

I am not opposed to bringing in another woman into our relationship and thought J was a good fit.  She is quiet, but pretty and we've both known her for years and shes very sweet.  My husband started talking to her about wanting to spend some time together and really let her know we both wanted this and she was receptive.  Well the other night she came over to spend the night.  We all watched tv, drank a few drinks and talked.  It got late and I crawled into bed and she moved up beside me...we both fell asleep.  The next morning we woke up and my husband had crawled into bed behind me.  He was caressing her hair and I rubbed her back and neck.  She seemed receptive and didn't ask either one of us to stop.  I took things slow...see this g/f as usual had never even kissed a girl.  And the thing with that...for me, is if you aren't bisexual I am not going to force it upon anyone.  My husband on the other hand...is a man and believes every woman is bisexual or should be...hehe.  I agree, but its not always the case.  I reached my hand around to rub around her ribcage and slid my hand up under her breast.  I wasn't going to go up under her bra unless I found her receptive or asked me to.  She never did. My husband then slid his hand around to her other breast and she placed his hand on it.  I wasn't aware of this at the time because we were all under covers.  Thats all the further it went because she got a bad migraine and ended up sick as a dog.  But after my husband made me aware she did that I realized he was not going to get his fantasy...not from her.  See we had this g/f a while back who was straight....but NOT with me and it was one of the most intimate moments I had with any girl.  I know thats what he wants to see again, but it has to all click...and it just wasn't.  Anyways he ended up staying home from work to "take care" of her.  I understand shes a friend and we've known her (and this is going to sound very jeolous of me, but its truely not) but swinging is fucking...its sex and sexual....not emotional.  I have never had to "take care" of any men I fucked....and I know its a difference in the sexes...men are primal and sexual whereas women are emotional.  But I don't want my husband in an emotional relationship with someone we are trying to seduce.  I mean I expect we should all be friends and be respectful and caring towards each other.  But when I see him doing things he would normally reserve for his wife....for another woman.  I just don't get it and don't want it that way.  When I tried to explain it to him, he rationalizes that its just like that with women.  Whats with women?  I am starting to feel unbisexual because I just can't deal with that mentality....the swingers aren't wanting to play....the vanilla women want "relationship" type stuff and the men...well they always just want to fuck...so thats not an issue..lol   I mean i know at the end of the day where my husband is going to be and where his heart is, but I can't help as a woman myself to think its unfair of another woman to think she should have my husband like that...where are all the sluts who just want to fuck and have a good sexual time??  Geesh.    Needless to say after 1/2 the day at our house, J just got up and left, no ty or whatever.  And that was really strange.  Was she regretting it?  Did she think I was mad?  I mean I guess I just put too much thought into all this....again just need a no strings attached slut for my husband. lol    My husband talked to J via txt and she said she just wasn't ready for all this, after a previous break up.. Oh lord...its just sex.  Maybe I am a sexual addict with a mind just alittle like a man, because I am not in a relationship with anyone but my husband....but someone who in this lifestyle is about fucking different people...men and women and if it works out it does, if not...live and learn I guess.   So we will see what happens with this.  Because I know he really wants to fuck her.  I am ok with that, but that needs to be all it is....